We all get a bit paranoid in a relationship because of the cheating, since it seems to be one of the biggest issues in any relationship. There are people ready to forget some things in the name of love, but in most cases, they can’t get over it and, not just that they break up the relationship, but there are also big chances that they never speak to their ex again. But sometimes, people are just too paranoid. Maybe because they had a bad experience in the past, or they were cheaters in previous relationship, but they can easily start punishing their boyfriend/girlfriend for something that they didn’t even do. To avoid the unnecessary break up or any other permanent damage of the relationship, people should learn how to find out if someone is a cheater, instead of just assaulting every new partner.
The act of cheating is not as bad as the consequences are. After the act, you need to look at your partner’s eyes and lie to their faces, which is something that will probably eat you alive any time soon. On the other hand, if you are the cheated one, even if you forgive and try to forget, there were always be that tiny piece of you that will possibly never go away. There are also high chances that you will do the same thing that your partner did in order to feel better, but trust me, it won’t do the work. You will feel even worse, and, even though the act of your partner was disgusting on so many levels, yours will be much worse because of the reason you did it. You will mostly do this in order to hurt your partner the way he hurt you. But, instead of that, you will end up hurting yourself and the third side, that wasn’t even the part of your and your partner’s problem from the beginning.
The conclusion is that you need to take everything into consideration and not to rush into conclusions. In order to be sure that you are doing the right thing and to be sure that your partner cheated after all, you don’t need to hire a detective the same moment you have some suspicion. Just try some of these 10 ways to tell if someone is lying about cheating to clear your dilemma.
